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Dont_Look_Now
Huntsville, Alabama USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 4:28 PM CST

darlynda wrote:
ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS
Give it a go....what have you got to lose? dunno You both own your own homes so it is not like if it does not work out that you will be out on your ear...

I say "Go for it!" applause





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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 4:29 PM CST

Jan1305 wrote:
Mine aren't. I've only ever moved in with one person and that lasted over 25 years.

How many times for you Indy???



Once wasn't enough... rolling on the floor laughing





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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 4:31 PM CST



I'd also check to see if he's taken out a $1,000,000 insurance policy on ya.. rolling on the floor laughing











Other than that.........dive in ! laugh





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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:22 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
I'd also check to see if he's taken out a $1,000,000 insurance policy on ya.. Other than that.........dive in !
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:23 PM CST




The sensitive cynic. rolling on the floor laughing





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:24 PM CST

Dont_Look_Now wrote:
Give it a go....what have you got to lose? You both own your own homes so it is not like if it does not work out that you will be out on your ear...

I say "Go for it!"


I agree thumbs up





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:24 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
The sensitive cynic.


hahah as always laugh





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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:46 PM CST

darlynda wrote:
ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS



Hell, just go get married. Or is it simply a "test drive"??grin





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FlowerOfTheSun
Malaga, Andalucia Spain

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:46 PM CST

darlynda wrote:
ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS


When Gongman and me got together we broke all the rules of common sense!!!

We had only spent 10 days together in between communicating by mail/phone ...

Within just over a couple of months, I came to visit with just a couple of cases ...

I'm still here six months later ...

Thing is though, he had to move shortly before I arrived and was living in non-permanent accommodation ... got the keys to the new (rented) place 2 days after I arrived ... So we kindda moved in together ... To a new space for both os us ...

I have to say one thing ... We had plenty of adjustments to make because we are still getting to know one another ...
We have recently discovered the most important thing (which we kindda knew but had not clocked on for ourselves): it is up to each one of us individually to "work on ourself" for our own growth, and up to each of us to allow space for the other to be able to do that. It's beautiful!!! teddy bear

Do what you gotta do!!!!








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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:48 PM CST

HJFinAZ wrote:
Hell, just go get married. Or is it simply a "test drive"??



Hope it's not a loaner....laugh





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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:52 PM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:
When Gongman and me got together we broke all the rules of common sense!!!

We had only spent 10 days together in between communicating by mail/phone ...

Within just over a couple of months, I came to visit with just a couple of cases ...

I'm still here six months later ...

Thing is though, he had to move shortly before I arrived and was living in non-permanent accommodation ... got the keys to the new (rented) place 2 days after I arrived ... So we kindda moved in together ... To a new space for both os us ...

I have to say one thing ... We had plenty of adjustments to make because we are still getting to know one another ...
We have recently discovered the most important thing (which we kindda knew but had not clocked on for ourselves): it is up to each one of us individually to "work on ourself" for our own growth, and up to each of us to allow space for the other to be able to do that. It's beautiful!!!

Do what you gotta do!!!!


huh?nerd



laugh yes it's beautifulhug





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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:58 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
Hope it's not a loaner....


Or GTP.........uh oh!





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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 5:58 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
My moving in days are over. I've got the shirt and button. I'll pass.
i am not against marriage but i just dont think its for me anymore, maybe its because i failed at it once and it took me 22 years to realize it , i dont know but i do know i choose to live the rest of my life with someone.........NOT BY MYSELF.teddy bear





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Charli15695
Dallas, Texas USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:03 PM CST

Do what your heart tells you ..... no one can make the decision but you! Good luck to you.





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onegoodguy1959
Bedford, Texas USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:05 PM CST

darlynda wrote:
okay i have my home and he has his own home, HELP I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?

Having been down this road before, here is my advice.
Rent out one home and live in the other. That way you can either kick him out or go back home if things don't work out. DO NOT open a joint checking account. Do not make any joint purchases or sign any joint leases.
This may sound cynical, but I learned the hard, and very expensive, way.
Hope evreything works out for you.





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res123
Bloomington, Indiana USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:15 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
I'd run a credit check and a police report.
Hey Indyfella, thats some funny shit there! rolling on the floor laughing





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bob1959
otisfield, Maine USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:18 PM CST

darlynda wrote:
ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS

Nope, can't green light you on this one kid. Give it some time. Have you even had your first fight yet? A year would not be to long for me.
I found it comical that the next tread is "heart Attack"grin





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bob1959
otisfield, Maine USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:19 PM CST

Charli15695 wrote:
Do what your heart tells you ..... no one can make the decision but you! Good luck to you.
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bob1959
otisfield, Maine USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:23 PM CST

darlynda wrote:
IT DOES FEEL RIGHT AND I GUESS THATS WHAT SCARES ME, but i guess we can both keep our homes for a while and see if its going to work i need a group hug cause i think i am going to jump in and do this

I SAID NO YOUNG LADY!!!!!!!!!!very mad





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EnSilencio
Almunecar, Andalucia Spain

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:25 PM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:
Do what you gotta do!!!!


The adjustment phase never ends, and it is a very big part of all the fun of moving in together.

When? When it sounds attractive. Don’t analyse it to pieces.

I moved across Europe for my love after 14 days of knowing her. I never regret doing that.

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