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EnSilencio
Almunecar, Andalucia Spain

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:48 PM CST

bob1959 wrote:
ENS, dude, didn't mean to sh#@t on your advise. I've seen you offer some pretty good stuff on here. Just think somebody needs to be the devel's advocate and since I know the guy personally........


An advice is there to be handled anyway people whish.

But, do keep some eye on her for us, right? here's to you





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bob1959
otisfield, Maine USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 6:53 PM CST

EnSilencio wrote:
An advice is there to be handled anyway people whish.

But, do keep some eye on her for us, right?
wink gocha





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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

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Posted: Aug 4, 2008, 7:08 PM CST

Hey, you could have a CS wedding in Knoxville on the 16th...wink





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forgivenangel
jacksonville USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 12:34 AM CST

dunno hug bouquet of flowers





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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 3:27 AM CST

HJFinAZ wrote:
Hey, you could have a CS wedding in Knoxville on the 16th...
do you not listen? i am not, REPEAT, not getting married





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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 3:27 AM CST

and his name doesnt end in R





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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 3:28 AM CST

darlynda wrote:
ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS
when you feel it's right hunhug





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lola36
dublin, Dublin Ireland

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 3:30 AM CST

darlynda wrote:
ok heres the question. my guy and i have been dating for a little over 2 months now and we are talking about moving in together. how long would each of you give it before you take that next step? i keep thinking i aint getting any younger and we do seen to get along really well. so please give me some really good advise , i know you can. THANKS



2 months would not be ennough for me...wave





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 3:31 AM CST

darlynda wrote:
and his name doesnt end in R


Dang! ::tramps back to the drawing board:::


laugh





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keytone
Portland, Oregon USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 4:00 AM CST

my advice is give it some time, I dont know too much about the circumstance but I hope you two can spend enough time to enjoy each other and still have your own space,,just my view. a lot can change in even a few month. I surely wish you both a great and long love,
;-}





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stefonline
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 4:05 AM CST

darlynda wrote:
okay i have my home and he has his own home, HELP I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?



Ok here goes......If it is what you both really want for this moment.....I advise you rent out your home for 6 months or one year move in with him and see how it goes...that way nothing lost.....give it a try....wave





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irishlass45
Texas USA, Texas USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 8:26 AM CST

mindfful wrote:
speaking strictly for myself...

my 'feelings' are complicated and sometimes have motivations im not aware of until later...

i have been known to do a pro and con list as a tool for many various decisions-but have thrown it out after as well a time or two...

feelings arent facts.
facts arent truth
either can change.
but change is the only constant in the universe.

for me? im certain if i 'felt' right/ready...i wouldnt be asking on a forum...

sincerely, i mean no offense

hey we choose and then we can always choose again right?



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I love your thinking and rethinking processesrolling on the floor laughing

as for the question?hmmm thats up to you two, in the end it will not matter what is said here you will make your own mind up, how do i know this? because i am a woman toolips good luck, oh and we are apt to change our minds anytime we want, just aske mindffulwink laugh wave





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irishlass45
Texas USA, Texas USA

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Posted: Aug 5, 2008, 8:28 AM CST

darlynda wrote:
do you not listen? i am not, REPEAT, not getting married


yea rightrolling eyes laugh i thought time was a factor?sticking out tongue





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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 6, 2008, 4:19 AM CST

EnSilencio wrote:
An advice is there to be handled anyway people whish.

But, do keep some eye on her for us, right?
thank you





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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

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Posted: Aug 6, 2008, 4:27 AM CST

darlynda wrote:
oh gosh yes, we live 30 miles from each other , we have spent every weekend to gether for the last 2 months


oooooh, exciting....... however you choose, good luck hun hug wave teddy bear





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darlynda
new tazewell, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 6, 2008, 4:29 AM CST

irishlass45 wrote:
yea right i thought time was a factor?
i just have a phobia about marriage





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Diamond123
Fort Worth, Texas USA

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 7:01 PM CST

tufty wrote:
2 months?

Hardly time for the rose tinted specs to have settled down let alone slipped a bit!

A rough guess would say the honeymoon period at the beginning of a relationship lasts roughly 6 to 9 months, you're not likely to see the little irritating things that can drive couples mad till after that kinda period, so, tho it sounds fantastic in principle.... I'd give it a good year (not a tyre....) before considering such a move, it gives you a chance to see the real each other and not just the fairytale stuff of new hormonal lusty relations...........


thumbs up cheers





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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 7:04 PM CST

My ex practically lived at my place - particularly on the weekends. Had her own half the closet, drawers (cabinet, er, not the other drawers, though she had those too). It was nice. But the moving out part was very painful. smoking





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Claayer
Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 7:08 PM CST

rwantin wrote:
My ex practically lived at my place - particularly on the weekends. Had her own half the closet, drawers (cabinet, er, not the other drawers, though she had those too). It was nice. But the moving out part was very painful.


comfort

Robster.. you are a great 'catch' and a lovely man..

there are HEAPS of women out there who would love to cram their underwear in your drawers.

Its just a matter of right place right time. thumbs up







(hahah! drawers is also slang for underpants here btw)





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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 7:11 PM CST

A day.. A Month..A Year.

Whos to say...

There is no limit on how long you should wait...

Do what you think is best...

No one really knows how long one must wait..

For me..when i feel its right..







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