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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

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Essential qualities in another person.......
Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:15 PM CST

how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?


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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada

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Essential qualities in another person.......
Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:25 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?


turned on - without sex ... giggle wink



bouquet of flowers have to think about that, but sex is usually on my mind so ... rolling on the floor laughing





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SirenLydia
Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK

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Essential qualities in another person.......
Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:33 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?



Trish, if your being turned on......


then there is only one thing on your mind......




SEX


Now if you ask what it is about them that you
find attractive or endearing well thats
something else.


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Pptrixibell
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:38 PM CST

I like the physical attraction.....you just know you like each other and flirt like mad, the lust and the excitement.....never happens nowuh oh! moping dunno laugh





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gingerb
Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:39 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?


Clever minds and wit do it for me every time.

Dealbreakers would be insensitivity and shouting or ignorant behaviour. Can't be around that at all.





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tufty
Chelmsford, Essex, England UK

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:42 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?


Absence of the ability to talk about anything and everything would be dull.... It's great to talk random with someone, haha actually some days its just nice to talk blues , so I don't think I would cope too well with someone without an opinion on most things (as long as they're not zealots on any one thing....) variety IS the spice.....

Absence of tactile behaviour I would be baffled by as well, I love all the touchy feely stuff and not just in the joy pit, the lil hugs and stuff that make you glow are vital


Over the top...... Giggling like a braying donkey at every slight funny would be a tad unnerving....







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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:42 PM CST

Humor - have to make me laugh..

Flirty

Eye Contact..smitten





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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:46 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?


I don't have a long list of expectations, just the basics really.....

Sense of humour.
A kind heart.
Intellect.
Respectful.

bouquet of flowers





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Tater
springfield, Illinois USA

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:47 PM CST

uuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm......


1)Looks draws me in (pretty face structure and not over weight)
2) then personality, and character

looking for: GOD fearing/loving, Honesty, sense of humor, thoughtfulness,(to me and others), straight forwardness, and being down to earth.





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Pptrixibell
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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:50 PM CST

Tater wrote:
uuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm......1)Looks draws me in (pretty face structure and not over weight)
2) then personality, and character

looking for: GOD fearing/loving, Honesty, sense of humor, thoughtfulness,(to me and others), straight forwardness, and being down to earth.


lookin' for rugby player!!!!cheering dancing banana head banger applause just kidding of course!!!!!handshake hug





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somechick
Somewhere,Ohio, Ohio USA

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 4:50 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?



What turns me on about the opposite sex would be his smile,personality, sense of humor, if they're a sensitive person.





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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:04 PM CST

kissmedeeply wrote:
Humor - have to make me laugh..

Flirty

Eye Contact..


Yes, I so agree - they have to make me laugh too - its essential and I think a crucial aspect to a relationsip - that we can laugh together laugh wave hug





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Indyfella
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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:07 PM CST

somechick wrote:
What turns me on about the opposite sex would be his smile,personality, sense of humor, if they're a sensitive person.
blushing How embarrassing......but thanks. grin





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somechick
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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:10 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
How embarrassing......but thanks.



How do you know I was referring to you?

There's no conceit in your family you have it all.rolling on the floor laughing wink





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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:10 PM CST

somechick wrote:
What turns me on about the opposite sex would be his smile,personality, sense of humor, if they're a sensitive person.


Oh my...... when I see my man smile it completely melts me - to see him happy is such a buzz - equally important, imo, is, as you say, to see the things which tickle his sensitivities......... any man I would ever take up with would have to be able to show his sensitive side, to be able to cry as well as laugh grin to not feel that particular emotions are gender specific.........





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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:11 PM CST

somechick wrote:
How do you know I was referring to you?

There's no conceit in your family you have it all.



aweeeeeeee~now.



Actually, I like the same traits you do....except maybe for the sensitivity.uh oh!





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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

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Essential qualities in another person.......
Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:13 PM CST

trish123 wrote:
how do you define attraction? would the abscense of particular qualities be a total deal breaker? and which qualities/characteristics do you see as potentially being completely over the top?

In short, aside from the sex stuff, what turns you on about the opposite sex?



"Heart", she has to have heart....wink





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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:14 PM CST

And not be full of fear and anger..D'oh!





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somechick
Somewhere,Ohio, Ohio USA

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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:15 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:
aweeeeeeee~now.
Actually, I like the same traits you do....except maybe for the sensitivity.



Hey now yourself laugh

There's nothing unmanly when it comes to a man showing his emtions.

I also like a man who's not afraid to speak his mind.







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Indyfella
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Posted: Aug 11, 2008, 5:16 PM CST

somechick wrote:
Hey now yourself

There's nothing unmanly when it comes to a man showing his emtions.

I also like a man who's not afraid to speak his mind.


Dang, and I'm shy and a bit reserved too.





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