In my last attempt at love, the things my partner did not like about me included:
Sleeping (I went to bed too early)
Showering (I prefer a morning shower, he prefers nighttime)
Driving (he would ask me to drive and then backseat drive the entire time)
Personal Hygiene choices (I like a dab of perfume, he wanted to be able to smell me coming 10 mins before I got there.)
Parenting skills (He thought I should order my son to live by my standards-My son is 27. I felt he was old enough to live by his own standards.)
I could go on but I won't bore you. At some point I realized, I was changing "me" little by little for someone else.
So one day I asked him, "Is there anything about me that you DO like?" His reply was after 1 second, "Your cute"!
So I believe Dan is right, if you fall in love with someone why try and change them?
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