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Yeah I know but he hasnt posted for ages, I wonder why.


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Ohhhh LL187 that was a little below the belt,lol.


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Well said LL187 we need a little encouragement to stop people leaving when bored. You noticed dad11months gone walkies too.


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Sablo can I first of all welcome you to the forum, have fun here sharing your view's. There are some lively debates I am sure you will enjoy, like the rest of us.

Yes Sablo women do like to be treated like a human bieng, obviously. I understand the underlying insinuation you have there love, respect, caring,love every emotion the same as anyone else should be used in equal rights with a female. What I believe country lady is trying to say is treat all women the way they wish to be treated, take them on there own credit's, after all we are all individual.




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LL187 REALLY you should know better,lol.


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Thank you acurangel

Exactly what I was hoping for someone to pick up on, bieng at one with nature. What a wonderfull feeling it used to be for me sat besides north pier at four in the morning. No-one around at all, total peace and quiet. Except of course for the sound of the waves lapping against the sea wall. Many time's I would sit with my back against a wall with my eyes closed and meditate. I always felt relaxed when I came back home, was always freezing too,lol. It is a shame I dont get to do that anymore, having children had stopped those trips to the pier early morning. You can guarantee any other time it is loud and full of people with noise and sistraction's all around. That was where I used to find my peace, now I couldnt say.

Ann-Marie


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I disagree aspendawn

Women are not the only ones to go without sex I know someone very well, very close to me who has been without sex for roughly 3 year's he is male and proud of waiting. I would not say it is just a case of bieng without sex !!!

It is case of bieng without love and making love. Through my own personal experience I would say bieng without love and love making is a difficult thing to do, because it make's you sort of cold/cut off and I would even go as far as to say it causes problem's with prospective partner's.

Maybe I am not making this very clear. Without a loving relationship you are on your own, yes ? The length of time your on your own make's it difficult to get back into a relationship, because you get used to bieng on your own, your own space. You often find little thing's irritate you more than they would of in a previous relationship. I have spoken to afew people on this subject at great length as I was getting worried thinking I was the only one to feel this. It seem's the people I have spoken to have experienced the same problem, they get set in thier way's. Again just another insight with a slight twist on the outlook this time.

Ann-Marie


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Hey D.P.W

Again another thoughtfull insight. I can see what your saying but surely a little thought and effort in a realtionship wouldnt hurt. I understand soulmates shouldnt need that, but we all need to learn and grow together, does this not insinuate trying ?


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Yes LL187

You are correct I have had a relationship with someone who did not think or care as much as me, he hurt me very bad and it ended after 4 year's of loving him unconditionally. I see your point and I am thankfull of your view's, they help to broden my perspective thank you for that.

Ann-Marie


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This could lead to an interesting topic, why does there seem to be a connection with the ocean !!!

Ann-Marie


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Actually pheonix that is also correct, I thought that stupidly with a guy that posted me yesterday. I wont go into too much detail on this one, if you don't mind.

Ann-Marie


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Hello D.P.W

I did go back and read your post, I now understand what you meant. Still don't agree with it though, my mind will see me through not someone else's. I did also see you think i am capable of learning on my own, good you should be necause I am,lol. Yep you got it right that english stroppy attitude is out on show again,lol this time faceciously.

As for am I happy, honestly sort of to a certain extent but no-where near fully !!! I can't even explain why I am not happy, I should be. I have two healthy beautifull daughter's, my health is also fine. I have a roof over my head and all the small thing's in life that matter. I just dont feel content and happy yet, go figure because I can't.

Ann-Marie




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Apology accepted LL187 maybe i should apologise aswell, I did fly off the handle a little. I am sorry for bieng so stroppy with you.

Cutelildevilsmom you look fine don't woory the right one will be along soon enough, I think you already know this though.

Ann-Marie


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Well alot of women as you say eagle151 dont respect the men's feeling's. I alway's try to answer, unless the undertone is sexual. I don't personally think these people should be writing like that, there is no need to introduce yourself in that manner.

But there are women on occasion who are new and press the wrong button. For example I had been on this site for about 2 week's, not really sure how to use all the function's. I selected the mail I had replied to, to enable me to delete it. Only problem bieng the whole bloody lot dissapered I only selected 3 out of about 5/6 I think it was.

Ann-Marie


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I thought I knew what makes me feel at peace. I have just realsied I don't, I remember I used to sit by north pier when I was younger listening to the sound of the waves. I felt peace then, but I no longer get to do that with quiet. So I honestly don't know. Look's like I have found a new direction for a short while, finding peace.

Ann-Marie


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I agree with the pair of you to an extent. Romance is underrated without a shodow of a doubt. I dont dont believe when that's gone, that's why relationship's die. I belive this is purely down to lack of communication and the the lack of willing to try. Unresponsiveness kick's in and we ignore each other, till the relationship as a consequence eventually die's.

what a shame we have to be this way. A little effort would go a long way !

Ann-Marie


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Goodmorning all

Well sixtyvetteman you are spot on with your view, I think we all know that deep down. We have all previously posted the very same comment's in other thread's, with regard's to knowing yourself and who is responsible for happiness. Have a great day.




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Hi mccormick

Well what I personally have alway's wished for, is simply someone to love me and my girl's for who we are, as I would them. Also to help 50/50 work/house share everything.

Simple eh you would think ? but it isnt because of the following...

I dont want possesive/immature/mentally weak/insecure/obsessive/drunk's/drug using men, that's where the problem's come in.


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Pheonix
Thank you for your kind word's but believe me, I can bring chaos,lol.

LL187

Bieng the stroppy individualistic anti-authoritarian I am. I will decide in time when and where I chose to learn, at the moment I chose the internet with discussion board's just like this one.

I personally find other people's life experiences combined with my own, followed by what I see with my own eye's is the greatest learning curve for me.

I have been to college and tried that way and passed two basic computer courses. I have learnt through past stages in my life also for example... 2 years ago all my senses were hieghtened, which game me an overwhelming feeling of joy when I saw/smelled/touched the natural beauty in the world. I can still remember how that felt, I actually went to the doctor because I thought I was ill,lol.

As for learning while asleep, nope i'm afraid that sound's to lazy for me. I also don't want a guide to teach me all he know's. I would like to kick start my own brain into it's own way's of learning. I am 32 year's old tommorow, I personally believe I am doing a good job and progressing well.

Thank you for your offer to help but I am capable of growing on my own, have been from an early age.

Thank's again

Ann


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