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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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I am surprised to see any kind of mean spiritedness coming from you. It is all too true that in general Americans are lacking in knowledge about other countries around the world, not just Europe and not just geography. The American culture and education system are quite egocentric. As I grew up, I believed the British Isles meant Wales, England, Ireland, and Scotland. I have traveled a bit, to over 30 countries, and have lived in 4 countries outside of the US; I too am an international teacher. Two summers ago I back-packed around what I would call Great Britain, but I guess that is wrong, and it is Great Britain and Ireland. I went to Dublin and other parts of Ireland, I also went to Northern Ireland and Belfast, Wales, Scotland and England, though I had been to England and Scotland before. In my mind was the idea that they were all one unified entity called the United Kingdom, and I was surprised to learn Ireland is a completely separate country. I should have known, but I didn’t. I'm one of those silly, ignorant, egocentric Americans, apparently. The other night on the forum I was reading and following along, drinking and also on cold meds, & I jumped in and said something about Dublin being part of the UK. A mistake for which I was/am extremely embarrassed, but the old thinking that I grew up with had prevailed. To Americans, the divisions in the European landscape can be confusing. It is about the same size as the US, geographically, and the boarders and governments have changed somewhat over the course of history, including recent history. I would hazard a guess that most Europeans are not totally familiar with all the US states, though they have not changed for a hundred years or so. Most American states are about the size of European countries; the states I have lived in are each about the same size as Germany, and each nearly as populated and complex. Americans don’t generally expect Europeans to be familiar with the specifics of each state, its government, culture, geography, history, etc. Almost everyone, here in Europe, and around the world, who asks me where I'm from in America has little or no idea where it is, much less what it is like, the government, etc. We should know more about Europe, yes, and I am very embarrassed about the mistake I made.

The program you cite on this forum post is an American program, and it is making fun of the lack of knowledge in America about geography. We are laughing, quite mean spiritedly I think, but laughing at ourselves. For you make the statement “Is Europe such a mystery to people in the US??” is hurtful. Few Americans are quite as clueless as that woman. She is purposely there to be ridiculed, and it isn’t, to me, funny to watch, but painful because of the mean spiritedness involved. I hope you will not take offence to this. It is only meant to present another viewpoint. I hope you will take this in the spirit in which it is offered as I have seen you as one of the more thoughtful people who contributes to the forums. I am not suggesting your posting is directed at me, and I hope I am not being overly sensitive. But, I do think that mean spirited is not the way to respond to ignorance. I know you, as a teacher, can understand this.
I don't know what exactly is taught in American schools but if I believe you then I can say whatever America teach to their kids in the end they can't change the world. Who cares about the egos they have. grin


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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not true!

Do the "future" first ladies stand like that in your country?

Sure that the whole campaign in America is different...

She said that she had great passion on this race, that's why she's appearing, standing for Obama...go figure why with so much persistence

Maybe it's because Obama is real, she knows he is serious and understands him and his intentions more than anyone so she can't hold on about how he is the perfect guy for the nation?
At her speeches, i see her so "desperately" trying to convey how much potential he has...
Is it politics, love...screaming for help for America?

I don't care a bit about it to e honest and after reading your question that first thing that came to my mind was one I just punched above.
Now analyzing the cause of her speech I think Hillary Clinton is getting much popularity and votes because of her gender may be she (read Michelle) also want to have that advantage for her husband...and that's all I can reckon about it...



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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Uli please forgive me I am crying like a baby too and you never let me forget that sigh crying crying crying comfort


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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she's been giving speeches as if she was running too! Has it always been like that in America, future first ladies back their husbands like that? I don't remember...

When you will be wife of Presidential candidate then you will automatically get the answer to this dancing banana grin wave


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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I am not positive about what permissions you mean
I think in your Linux's control center there some Security setting check for the level of security chosen default is highest generally....this can be a problem also.....I am not working on Linux anymore...but this is what I can reckon dunno


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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I get a response-string: "An error occurred while loading http://www.connectingsingles.eu
Connection to host www.connectingsingles.eu is broken."
What I ment is that the code can read out the plattform and react on that, e.g. deny the access to the server, what I actually not belive is the case here ... just in theory.

well ... I use the same installation on the laptop since about a year without any change and suddenly it stopped connecting to the server of CS. No firewall, javascript enabled, cookies checked ...
Ok open your Linux control center or browser (I am not sure??) and check out Levels and Checks and
also Permissions....




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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Telnet will most probably be blocked, I'll be surprised if it isn't.
No it is not becoz I just get connected to CS through telnet.....dancing banana


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Try accessing the site using its URL. Try the following:

http://76.12.57.65
Yes thats good idea p_seq or better telnet it on port 80 to see if you can connect to it or not....


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Hi tessie and cathy, thanks for your wishes!!

Well, to be honest, I'll soon be off to bed, feeling a bit tired this evening.
Well happy birthday my friend .....I wish you best wishes ....cheers


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
Correct me if I am wrong...first its platform that treats the code different and not the other way round..
Secondly, when you do a Http request through your browser (client) you always get response in string form (because http is a string based protocol) now when your Linux system receives a string response through your browser (client); your browser knows how to interpret it because it will be standard HTML response with some images and java script.
Only thing I can suggest you to see if you enabled java script in your browser or not (even which will show you the page with less features) or are you not behind some firewall that blocked access to CS site or not....



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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
I don't get your point here; because its the client that matter and not the platform you are using (like Linux)....so if you are using the proper browser like Firefox or Konqurer or Netscpae etc for linux (I am using Firefox too) then you should not have problem.....


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
To be honest and I swear my heart is too big for such small things to come in my way; because for me it goes like this if I decide to call it a day and propose someone; she will be the best for me and I am smart enough to decide who is good for me and who's not....so matter of jealousy or my friend ending up with good one doesn't come into question ..for me the one with me will be the best blushing wine


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Hi cristina wave


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
I have no clue about the original and hybrid version....but I still like Bryan Adam, Robin Williams and Enrique, Backstreet Boys etc..its funny by hearing my choices somebody (read a lady) asked me if I am gay? laugh


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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I am what I am my friend. Please do not take my words too harshly as they were intended in humour.

Mark
Not at all... thumbs up handshake cheers


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Then it is truly fortunate that you my friend are not the one my heart seeks I suppose. Belief and faith are simple my friend, smell the dew, taste the wind, read a child's eyes the answers lie all about us strewn seemingly carelessly by the hand of the Lord to remind us in our times of doubt.

Mark
Please don't misunderstand me I am very practical guy and when I don't see logic in continuing something I just back off. I have been reading your replies on many threads and I find them bit monotonous and you loose the plot in between....reading you is just like reading some holy words and the ideal response you give always make me feel why this guy is doing this?..No offenses this is they way I feel cheers


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
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Fortunately for myself I have a near photographic mind (tempted to call it photogenic cause it's so damn pretty on paper) so I just talk (endlessly I've been told ) and burn every single detail into my love struck heart and mind. I am really only interested in the little things at first because they decide the foundation's load bearing capacity. The big things have to be similar but the profile and the little things will ultimately prove the veracity here. Differences are desired as growth is integral to a lasting relationship, but not too many for the odds they place between the two. Honesty and simplicity go the distance much like the tortoise and the hare analogy, and therein lies the treasure of your heart's desire.
Plans for such an endeavor are fruitless as they will be derailed instantly, but keeping notes will determine how both of you listen, a vital commitment in any relationship to be sure.
Fears, hopes, desires, likes, dislikes etc are all important but a resume is not required, we are not applying for a dispassionate position in some faceless firm. Those seeking to share their heart and soul will just allow the harmony to flow from within and bask in the glow of the recipient's reciprocation.

Mark
It's hard to believe you Mark conversing


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
The reason can be many from shy partner to nervousness; I agree with Karen.... thumbs up


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
scold laugh rolling on the floor laughing


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your_destiny Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
I start by sending flowers and ofcourse I have mental check-list like finding someone from local or nearby region is one of them. But I am not the right guy to answer this because I just come on CS for forums only I am already seeing someone blushing
But for rest of your question I think if he/she is racist then he/she will not even try to respond on your request and you will know soon if he/she hates something you really like...



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