About me: Unexpectedly divorced. I don't want to live the rest of my life alone, but I'm not rushing in to a binding relationship. I live in Columbia near family. Been here since October 2006. I'm interrested in fishing, camping, museums, movies, plays, any kind of music (except rap), genealogy, spiruality, meeting and getting to know all kinds of people and learning about them. I'm looking for an activity/dating/friendship person. The name "Gray_uncle" is from one of my nephew's mis-understanding of "great uncle" of course that has become my nick-name. I have a sense of humor that has been described as being a little strange, but fun. Life's too short, and getting shorter all the time. Not much fun alone.
I like camping, fishing, wildlife, I can't hike (bad knee) but walks in the outdoors are wonderful. I love good conversation. No arguments please. Been there, done that.
I want to wait and make sure, as far as reasonably possibe, that I make a good decisions before getting into a binding relationship. Spirtual things are important to me. I try to be open to all beliefs and philosophies, because I always am wanting to learn more about people and what they believe, even if it's nothing. I also don't like prejudice and bigotry. I already know enough about that. Feel free to ask about my spirituality, some have made assumptions, wrongly.
I don't want to be second guessed, belittled, invalidated, ignored, used, mis-trusted, taken for granted. People that say they have no baggage usually have the most.
One last thing. I've been told by women how they've been stood up, or had rude comments made about their looks, weight, etc., after meeting someone online. I've been stood up myself, without any kind of contact or apology. I don't do that. If we agree to meet, I'll be there. The chemistry might be there. I might be THE ONE and you THE ONE for me. I don't want to miss you. So feel free to contact me first, I always answer.
I'm looking for: In addition to what I've said above, my perfect match would be a lady that has a sense of humor, might be called a cut-up. Considerate of others, not just me. Willing to talk about anything, but not uncompfortable with quiet time.
Personality is number one. Doesn't mind being treated like a lady, by someone that wants to be a gentleman.