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BrandMan24
Pearland USA
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Posted: Sep 18, 2006, 12:57 AM CST |
Well, it's really up to you, but I would just be honest, and upfront with the men you go out with; tell them to their face in their eyes that you are NOT a One Night Stand, you're looking for something serious like Long Term or marriage... Be nice, yet, be firm with them when you speak.. I hope I helped/ Good Luck.
~BRANDON PAUL WEBB~
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Tumpa
ottawa, Ontario Canada
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Posted: Sep 18, 2006, 2:42 AM CST |
I being one of the masses assumed nothing. Also I knew nothing of you before showing up to this thread...
If your looking for serious sorts, continue being candid and frank and weed out the weenies...
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cajunfroggy
Waco USA
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Posted: Sep 18, 2006, 2:54 AM CST |
hes a smart man ^^^^^
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Tumpa
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Tumpa
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
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Posted: Sep 18, 2006, 6:07 AM CST |
As Z said not all, another point I find interesting is woman claiming they do nothing to bring on these advances, that without no effort on their part, it just happens all the time. no matter what or where... they have no control is garbage!
I've never encountered a woman who could not get my attention when she wanted to "get serious" or had something important to discuss or say.
It's hard for anyone to rid themselves of the "Party animal" moniker, or the "always just about having good times" description. Sometime you have to set a goal and do not loose focus of it, sometimes you may loose some people in your circle because of your changed attitude, but your freinds... they'll be there. Oh yeah, just saying thats what you want from a man will not be enough. relationships take more effort than just good sex.
but good sex is always a way a great attention getter
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Illuminate
Kathleen, Georgia USA
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Posted: Sep 18, 2006, 7:39 AM CST |
Redrobin thats easy...just don't give it up so easy.
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redrobin
oak ridge, Tennessee USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:14 PM CST |
I don't have to give it up when most guys just try to take it. I have seriously told men that I'm celebate and they don't have a chance. They continue to paw me anyway. I have had to throw several people out of my home, for the utter disrepect that these men show. There behavior borders on assault! You assumed that I give it up as well as these jerks! What is your explanation and excuse? Your no better than them
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redrobin
oak ridge, Tennessee USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:23 PM CST |
Thank you for taking the time to write me back all your input, I appreciate you!
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cutelildevilsmom
portsmouth, New Hampshire USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:27 PM CST |
maybe not inviting guys back to your house would be a good start.it sends a mixed message which i am sure is unintended on your part and it is plain unsafe.I would keep my dates public till you meet the man you feel is the one for you.....
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redrobin
oak ridge, Tennessee USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:37 PM CST |
I've never been labeled a party animal, because I am not one. I never drink, do drugs, or go to bars or clubs. For fun I read and philosophy. I'm considered an intellectual in my circle of friends. So doesn't have to do with my lifestyle, but I appreciate you taking the time to respond to my question!
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redrobin
oak ridge, Tennessee USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:41 PM CST |
I completely agree. you hit the nail right on the hammer. I have a while back made a rule not to allow men into my place until we're also good friends. Thanks for your response!
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cutelildevilsmom
portsmouth, New Hampshire USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:42 PM CST |
no problem..good luck to you.
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:43 PM CST |
I am curious how these characters get access into your house??
trusting is a slippery slope for women regardless of education, profesion, or location, women lettin men into their homes is ...just dangerous. I do hope you have resolved that problem.
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redrobin
oak ridge, Tennessee USA
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Posted: Sep 20, 2006, 8:47 PM CST |
If you see my reponse to someone who rudely appliedthat I give it up to easy, it will also tell you a bit more. I really appreciate your input, and taking my question seriously, honestly the whole thing makes me feel really discouraged about people.
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j2569
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jeanc200658
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Posted: Nov 21, 2006, 8:40 AM CST |
What do you mean that women "claim" they do nothing to bring on the advances? Ha! When I used to go out, I was approached by men who made advances to me all the time, and didn't "do" a damn thing to bring them on.
Unless, of course, I was guilty simply by the fact that I just happened to be there. Some people still have the ridiculous antiquated notion that a woman is somehow looking to get laid or hit on if she goes to a bar, particularly if she goes alone. Ever thought that maybe she might just want an ice-cold beer and to play pool or chat with friends, etc?
How anyone can blame the "victim" (for lack of a better word, but you know what I mean) for the actions of another is completely beyond me.
Now, granted, sometimes these advances were most welcome; oftentimes they were not. In those cases that they were not, I had no qualms whatsoever about telling the guy to get the hell out of my face.
 
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Scribbles
Cork, Cork Ireland
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Posted: Jun 11, 2007, 10:41 AM CST |
That is your anwser...
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