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disentangledme
undecided, Michigan USA
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:00 PM CST |
If you are friends with a girl and you end up having sex on more than one occasion. Is it just assumed that that is what your relationship is? can she hang out with you without you expecting sex? Is there a chance you'd become morer than friends with her, like boyfriend/ girlfrined? Have I ruined everything? 
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chopper145
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:07 PM CST |
if you did once why not do it again,or is that a game you play just to get what you want at that time,then you can keep your options open.sounds to me like you just like to screw around.(if you want sex and friend ship,im game)
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disentangledme
undecided, Michigan USA
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:10 PM CST |
Thanks for the reply, lol. I think at first it was just fun screwing around but the feelings are starting to come out! 
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:11 PM CST |
damn hard question to answer, what one calls a freind and what another calls a freind varies greatly, just a thought but was the sexperience a wham bam or was it discussed before hand where you both under the influence of outside stimulation was only one less than 100%? was one push hell was one seduced? all these are petintent questions.
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chopper145
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:15 PM CST |
be careful,somebody is bound to get the wrong idea,then again your young,maybe you are just testing the water,which is ok if ask me.
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disentangledme
undecided, Michigan USA
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:15 PM CST |
we had went to the bar, the first time, so we were drunk but pretty sober by the time we got back. But other times when we were just hannging out at my apt its happened. neither was pushed, it was just fun. We still talk about what we are doing next weekend and try to get together as often as possible. I just assume when we hang together it will happen. Its like a bf without the title. and damn it I want the title!
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chopper145
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 8:43 PM CST |
im doin the same thing,it keeps things uncomplicated.maybe you should tell your friend that you want to seal the deal.then again that would put everything out on the table.dude could get scared and run.guess you gotta take chances in life and love. 
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Pucks
Vernon Canada
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Posted: Dec 3, 2006, 9:10 PM CST |
IMO you have "screwed" yourself and i mean more than just sex with this fella. I mean he's been getting it without any responsiblity or committment so why would he want to change. He may just want to continue what has been happening.
I would be surprised if he respected you for anything more than your casual sex friendship but hey not all guys are like that.
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littleman454
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RenoPat
Valley of the Sun, Arizona USA
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highplains
Highland Springs, Virginia USA
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Posted: Dec 20, 2006, 2:24 PM CST |
Casual sex is a great thing.....if you understand and accept from the onset that is all it is........it's difficult to detach sex that way for many people.
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ohiostate4life
marion, Ohio USA
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Posted: Dec 20, 2006, 3:47 PM CST |
there are occasions where feelings become involved, sometimes not. If you do have feelings involved, then find where they lead. You'll never know if you don't try. If you are afraid of losing a friend, make sure you make that a point in conversation. If you can live with "friends with benifits", then so be it.
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mike1960
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Posted: Dec 20, 2006, 3:59 PM CST |
been in a cppl of relates doing the friendship with benafits and for the most part's the friendship relates seem to grow in the way's we seem to care about each other and the respect we had for each other in my opinion the reason those relates worked out in the positiv way that they did was nothing was ever took 4 granit. the reason both relates end'd was both gal's end'd up getting jobs out of state. oh btw the relates took place years apart not at the same time (silly grin)
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nwnstar
Conway USA
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Posted: Dec 20, 2006, 6:10 PM CST |
hehe...not for me, lol...
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tucker1967
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TikiGuy
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