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moonshadow54
elizabethton, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Jul 20, 2007, 2:37 PM CST

blushing Hi; I have thought this over thoroughly and have come to the conclusion that if nothing else gets done, I have made someone laugh out loud with this question:
What does it mean when someone on the site says they are looking for a woman with no baggage? Duh! I am looking for a real answer. Dad always said, if you want to know something, ask....of course about a week later, he was hollaring UNCLE.... but it stuck with me.....thank you for your time, I will not be held responsible for any harmfull outcomes from me asking this question: ie. hic cups, laughing till you cry,sore sides from laughing, sore face from gigglin, etc. please don't wet yourself.....bye.





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Mitchell1
Chattanooga USA

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Posted: Jul 20, 2007, 4:40 PM CST

Baggage = ex husbands who hang around. Children, emotional destress, financial ruin.

I think women also want a guy with minimal "baggage"





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Jackson
Powell, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Jul 21, 2007, 11:29 AM CST

wave Hey, Mitchell. Hope all is well with you. Given the drought, hope you're getting rain there; we've had a bit but are still WAY behind.

Take care, and have a good weekend.

J & D




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Baggage = ex husbands who hang around. Children, emotional destress, financial ruin.

I think women also want a guy with minimal "baggage"

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moonshadow54
elizabethton, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 8, 2007, 4:07 PM CST

Thank you for the reply, I guess I have never known anyone that didn't have baggage. But I can understand how some folks would feel that having baggage would cause a bumpy relationship. Hope you have a good day, Moonshadowhandshake





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Cath4
Clarksville, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 9, 2007, 12:43 AM CST

Everyone has baggage.
This baggage is accumlated through life experience. Sometimes you can put the baggage down right away and sometimes you can't for a while.

I tend to speak in metaphors.





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pegasusmustfly
cleveland, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 9, 2007, 2:27 PM CST


Dear Cath4...

You sound very wise. thumbs up How true this is. I think I would be a little leary if someone in our age group did not have SOME baggage. Seems that having a little baggage can develop character and grow us up! professor




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Everyone has baggage.
This baggage is accumlated through life experience. Sometimes you can put the baggage down right away and sometimes you can't for a while.

I tend to speak in metaphors.

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Cath4
Clarksville, Tennessee USA

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Posted: Aug 10, 2007, 12:39 PM CST

Pegasus,

Everyone has baggage.
Some baggage can be gotten rid of.
Some can't. That kind you just have to close the door on.

i carry some baggae of my life tht I really don't care for but it's there anyhow. That's life.

Baggage is a metaphor for an individual's personal experiences, interaction wiith other people and a host of other things. It's an accumulation of lots.
Baggage has highs and lows in it.

You try to discard the bad baggage as best you can. You deal with whatever was bad, come to some resolution of actions and you go on.

Bad baggage, if it's kept to feed, can fill a person wth great remorse over deeds done in misjudgement.

You pack this stuff in a suitcase and shove it int a closet or an attic.

I dwelt over a pives f bad backage for a very long time. i finally resolved my issue with it.





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