| Author | | Thread: has this ever happened to you |
|
|
ulcream10
jamestown, Tennessee USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 1:26 AM CST |
i'm 36 an so far from my marriages these things has happened
i've been cheated on hit on "not in a good way "
screamed at,drugged heavily once "that sucks"
used for financial gain,
lets see well of course lied too
i've had one keep my kids from me.
at her own accord.
i've been married twice an divorced twice.
is this common oh almost forgot someone will ask if i've done any of those things or deserved it
i've never cheated lied hit screamed at or drugged anyone nor have i
used someone for financial gain.
i've got my kids now an have not kept them from her any.
should i still look for love lmao
just curious "maybe i live in the wrong city lol
------------  THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
|
|
Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | | |
|
|
|
FishingMTgirl
Big Sky, Montana USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 1:31 AM CST |
Each relationship is different. Maybe to self reflect to see what and why you are attracted to woman who are like that??? Well look at the bright side, they say 3rd time is a charm It's unfortunate that you have had to endure that but hopefully you will have learned something from it. You know what you don't want because it's been done to you, so when you are looking for someone in your life, find the qualities that are more like you and again look back and ask yourself what kind of women am I attracted to??? Maybe you will get some insight with that?
Spanky
and yes there is always hope
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
JH443
Akron, Ohio USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 1:32 AM CST |
My ex first attempted a "til death do you part" style divorce. This was just the climax of a 3 year marriage that went sour about 4 months in. Other than that my list isn't as bad as yours. My point is that not all women are "sugar and spice."
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 1:33 AM CST |
Damn, I hate it when someone else's answer is better than mine...
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
In response to:Each relationship is different. Maybe to self reflect to see what and why you are attracted to woman who are like that??? Well look at the bright side, they say 3rd time is a charm It's unfortunate that you have had to endure that but hopefully you will have learned something from it. You know what you don't want because it's been done to you, so when you are looking for someone in your life, find the qualities that are more like you and again look back and ask yourself what kind of women am I attracted to??? Maybe you will get some insight with that? Spanky and yes there is always hope quoted message
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
Scottishlass
Knoxville, Tennessee USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 7:43 AM CST |
sounds like your ex's & my ex's should get together as they seem to have a lot in common.
never give up on love.
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
In response to:i'm 36 an so far from my marriages these things has happened i've been cheated on hit on "not in a good way " screamed at,drugged heavily once "that sucks" used for financial gain, lets see well of course lied too i've had one keep my kids from me. at her own accord. i've been married twice an divorced twice. is this common oh almost forgot someone will ask if i've done any of those things or deserved it i've never cheated lied hit screamed at or drugged anyone nor have i used someone for financial gain. i've got my kids now an have not kept them from her any. should i still look for love lmao just curious "maybe i live in the wrong city lol quoted message
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 7:52 AM CST |
hmmmmm i think i just met another twin 
No matter what has happened in the past, you have to keep in mind "all men/women" are NOT the same. There are plenty of bad ones, but on the flip side there are plenty of good ones.
My advice to a friend recently with the same type of problem was to sit down, write a list of all the things that attracted you to the person (for each ex), see where the commons are that pose a problem.........then write another list of the things you do want in a partner............mix the 2 and there ya go......look for someone without the problem traits and all the good things you found in those past partners plus the good things you do want. ......................low and behold she did listen, has a great man one i wish i had met first lol j/k , but they are doing well.
There is hope out there always.........and wrong city or not, if you don't fear travel you will meet lots of lovely people here to choose from!!!
 Good luck in your quest
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 7:57 AM CST |
 ... never give up... after all that u DEFINITELY deserve happiness.. be careful tho.. and be honest with urself.. do u find urself attracted to a certain 'type' if so identify that type, be CONSCIOUS of that type.. and keep the hell AWAY from them.. learn within yourself to honestly believe u deserve more and seek this kind of person out..
I wish u the best of luck 
Love ur picture by the way.. is that ur eye?.. cute eye!!
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
In response to:i'm 36 an so far from my marriages these things has happened i've been cheated on hit on "not in a good way " screamed at,drugged heavily once "that sucks" used for financial gain, lets see well of course lied too i've had one keep my kids from me. at her own accord. i've been married twice an divorced twice. is this common oh almost forgot someone will ask if i've done any of those things or deserved it i've never cheated lied hit screamed at or drugged anyone nor have i used someone for financial gain. i've got my kids now an have not kept them from her any. should i still look for love lmao just curious "maybe i live in the wrong city lol quoted message
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
Zellarrone1
Hull, Humberside, England UK
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 9:06 AM CST |
Yeah, it does sound as if your town isn't up to much.
If I were you I'd move and hope for 3rd time lucky in the love dept
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
In response to:i'm 36 an so far from my marriages these things has happened i've been cheated on hit on "not in a good way " screamed at,drugged heavily once "that sucks" used for financial gain, lets see well of course lied too i've had one keep my kids from me. at her own accord. i've been married twice an divorced twice. is this common oh almost forgot someone will ask if i've done any of those things or deserved it i've never cheated lied hit screamed at or drugged anyone nor have i used someone for financial gain. i've got my kids now an have not kept them from her any. should i still look for love lmao just curious "maybe i live in the wrong city lol quoted message
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|
|
ulcream10
jamestown, Tennessee USA
View Threads
View Posts
| | has this ever happened to you
Posted: Jan 6, 2008, 9:25 PM CST |
aries01 you made me blush on the last one 
all of you have got good advice i'll see what i come up with
..thank you ya'll
john
------------ THIS THREAD IS ARCHIVED AND DOES NOT ALLOW REPLIES------------
|
| | Is this post offensive? Click here to let us know |
| |
|
|